My story is not unique. Divorced parents, some depression, acting out and abusing my body with unhealthy habits. Mindless adolescent behaviors led to an absence of monthly periods that lasted from teenage years well into my 30’s. Possibly I have Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS), possibly I have hypothalamic amenorrhea (a term used when the pituitary shuts down and stops producing key hormones), or possibly I have a hybrid of both. Regardless of the official diagnosis, I was told I could not have a baby without drugs or help from the western medical system. So I gave up on the idea of wanting a child because I was stubborn and wanted to do it my way, without any outside assistance – medications, technology, etc. And I didn’t want to deal with the reality that things may not go according to MY plan.
Most people think Acupuncture is used for pain management, fertility support, treatment of headaches and TMJ, hormonal balance, psycho-emotional well being and stress reduction. Rarely do you hear someone say “I’d like to clear karma through acupuncture” (unless of course you live on the westside of LA); however, Daoist tradition states just that. By using a golden needle on a specific point during pregnancy, you can can clear and separate the karma of the mother from the child. Sound crazy? Well this magical point actually exists and is referred to as the “Happy Baby Point”.
With fertility, there is a tremendous amount of focus and energy that goes into prepping the body and mind towards its most fertile state. Once new life enters the womb, all that energy previously funneled into getting pregnant now goes towards growing organs and tissue and sustaining the pregnancy, if it is a healthy one. (more…)
With beauty, serenity, and open arms, Elaina Bellis lets me into her home to speak a little bit about her pregnancies, hardships, wellness regiments, and favorite foods. As a healthy mother of two beautiful one year old twin girls, she has a great deal of insight about the benefits of acupuncture and other wellbeing regiments during and after her births. As I sit with her over a meal of freshly prepared organic chicken fajitas (which I initially declined but then couldn’t help myself over), she opens up about some of the challenges surrounding her physical and emotional life as a result of trauma’s she’s experienced over the last few years.
In our youth we’re given many tools to help prevent a pregnancy. We’re told to practice safe sex until we’re mature enough to bring a new life into this world. We’re taught that procreation is an innate instruction embedded in our DNA, and that having a baby is only a choice NOT to make. Only when we make a conscious decision to start trying does it become apparent that things don’t always go according to plan.